Chapter Four
Grieving As A Family
In my experience, both professional and personal, grieving families experience life-changing transitions.
The death of a loved one forever changes them. My father died in 1986, following ten years of disability as a result of a brain tumor.My family's transition began with his illness, yet its impact was not truly felt until his death. My father's death marked the beginning of a new chaos -- one without his leadership, support and understanding. An intregal piece of the family was missing.
Lifestyles, family roles, and support systems changed. Some of us became detached from my father and the family, while others felt a connection to him and other members of the group. The telling and retelling of our stories was limited, and we sought no professional support.
As our experience together continues, the relationships ebb and flow. My personal connection with my father grows as I continue to grow. He remains a vital part of my life both in memory and through a strong sense of his presence. (Read The Book)
